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How do I tell dad that I have a period?

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Girls in adolescence are experiencing a huge amount of changes that occur with their body. This includes breast augmentation, and the acquisition of feminine forms in the hips and waist, as well as the first menstruation.

All right

Each mother must first, before the approximate dates of the beginning of menstruation in a teenage girl, tell her daughter what menarche is. How does all this happen, and what to do. Special attention should be paid to the personal care item on such days, because it is very important. Also, the mother should clarify what hygiene products are, how to use them, and what is best for the girl. If all these rules are met, the teenager will never have a question: “How to tell my mother that I have a month?” After all, the mother and daughter will have a trust relationship in this vein after the conversation. But what if the parents did not tell the girl about it?

Directly

If a girl cannot independently figure out the question: “How can I tell my mother that I have menstruation?” - you just have to go directly to the parent and say everything without convolutions, as it is. This is the best way, do not be afraid to tell parents about their problems, because only they can help solve them. Moreover, this is not a father, a man, it is necessary to devote to such matters. Mom is the same woman who herself went through all these stages, she will always understand and tell you how to get out of the situation correctly and what you need to do.

Hints

Another way to solve the question that girls so often ask is: “How can I tell my mother that I have periods?” This method is suitable for those who are a little shy of their problems. It is necessary to approach the mother and begin to ask her about what kind of pads and tampons exist, how they differ from each other, which means the number of droplets on the package, you can ask what your mother uses. The parent should have a natural question: “Why are you interested in it?” And here you can already open the cards and tell your mother what has turned from a girl into a girl.

Say nothing

If a girl asks a question: “How can I tell my mother that I have periods?” - you can simply buy your own hygiene products and ask all the details to your girlfriends. But over time, the mother will still know, elementary, she can see the used pads in the trash. And after that, she herself will come to the conversation and put everything on the shelves.

No monthly

But nevertheless, the more terrible situation is that when the girl did not wait for her next menstruation and simply does not know how to say this to her mother. This is especially scary for those teenagers who have sex, because it can mean pregnancy. What to do if you do not come monthly? First of all, you need to tune in and say everything to your mother, she will know exactly what to do next. If this situation is excluded, there are other ways to test your body. If you want to exclude the fact of pregnancy, you need to do a special test, which is sold in a pharmacy. It is also better to contact a pediatric gynecologist, who is simply obliged to examine the girl. Most likely, you will have to donate blood and other tests to find out the cause. It is necessary to consult a doctor in a situation where the period was 2 days or did not pass for about a week. This may indicate some violations in the body of a girl. In any case, it is impossible to let everything take its course and wait for the situation to resolve itself, because such behavior can have bad consequences.

Sokol Larisa Ivanovna

Psychologist, Gestalt therapist. Specialist from the website b17.ru

go to the store herself

Usually, if you throw in your dad and grind "give me money for gaskets" - dad unfastens ten times more, with a frightened face and not asking how much money is needed.

Was in a hypermarket, met a neighbor. shame like that. We stand with purchases at the checkout, we talk, there are a lot of people around. And suddenly this 25-year-old girl pulls the cashier bag. Cashier pulls out of the bag gaskets, counts and back zasovyet gaskets in the bag. So it became a shame, this maramoyka tells about the oohs, akhi-trakh, and hesitates to buy linings. fu

7 did not see anything criminal. have you so strained a bag? Or shame for laying? strange you, not a neighbor.

7 did not see anything criminal. have you so strained a bag? Or shame for laying? strange you, not a neighbor.

Well. Maybe they have pocket money tight.

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say so .. dad, i need pads to buy ..

I live with my dad, my mom abroad, and how will my dad inform about it, will I have to buy gaskets?

say "dad, add some tampax money to my monthly pocket money." that's all. and if the language itself is dead, show it to your mom on the phone, and let her tell her dad.

So say: The heat pump has begun, give on plugs!

Why tell dad? She went and bought gaskets. If not, just ask - dad, give me money, rub 50 (or how much you need). To ask why - to answer, to hygiene products, that's all. No more comments, money will give. you buy.

Why tell dad? She went and bought gaskets. If not, just ask - dad, give me money, rub 50 (or how much you need). To ask why - to answer, to hygiene products, that's all. No more comments, money will give. you buy.

Was in a hypermarket, met a neighbor. shame like that. We stand with purchases at the checkout, we talk, there are a lot of people around. And suddenly this 25-year-old girl pulls the cashier bag. Cashier pulls out of the bag gaskets, counts and back zasovyet gaskets in the bag. So it became a shame, this maramoyka tells about the oohs, akhi-trakh, and hesitates to buy linings. fu

I also buy gaskets only in a pharmacy, and not in a supermarket where there are a lot of people around. And those who are in the transport discussing new panties or bras, or with the PMS or monthly guys - do not respect themselves.

Usually, if you throw in your dad and grill "give me money for gaskets" - dad unfastens it ten times more, with a frightened face and not asking how much money is needed.

fool, dad - this is your native person who is the closest at the moment. There is nothing terrible in this, we live in the 21st century, and everyone knows about the changes in the girl's body. On television, they talk openly about pads, tampons, contraceptives. And nothing? Of course, openly asking your father to buy you gaskets would simply not be ethical. Personal hygiene products you can buy yourself, go to the supermarket. Or do you worry that someone will ignite you with a pack of Olive and will condemn? Drop it! In the extreme case, if you are so scared to be seen by someone buying pads, just put them in a plastic bag (there are special bags near any shelving with hygiene products) and walk to yourself calmly at the cashier. In general, this is not a reason to worry, it's nothing! And as for your father, he certainly needs to know when you enter the adulthood stage. After all, this is a very important process, you are rebuilding from a girl to a girl. Do not worry, everything will be okok))))

"Daddy is monthly" - and all

and by the way until recently, too, it was embarrassing for me to ask for the gasket to buy — mom asked. And now apparently outgrown. )))

damn, you are right here all cool are! Man and dad live, hesitate to say about menstruation, and you pounced on it. Maybe they don’t give money for caramel on the principle: if you need something, say - I will buy it.

damn, I'm 14 years old someone else's dad said that I have monthly, but this one is embarrassed to her))) is funny

I, too, as a child, was frightened by the thought of how to say this. MAME. It was impossible for Dad to say this, and even now it is quite inconvenient for me to talk about physiology in this regard with him. I fully understand the author. Money can also be given to parents only for food at that age! The author, do not be afraid, I think not to say it frightening you words, it is better to just say that you need to buy pads. If the pads are hard to say, tell me that you need to buy personal care products.

I, too, as a child, was frightened by the thought of how to say this. MAME. It was impossible for Dad to say this, and even now it is quite inconvenient for me to talk about physiology in this regard with him. I fully understand the author. Money can also be given to parents only for food at that age! The author, do not be afraid, I think not to say it frightening you words, it is better to just say that you need to buy pads. If the pads are hard to say, tell me that you need to buy personal care products.

I also live with my dad)
And I tell him everything .. And even went to the gynecologist with him and nothing)
But in reality, things get really annoying when dad talks about IT.
But on the other hand, I understand the author very well, so ask a friend or say that you need women's accessories, or for example for cosmetics)
Or even if it doesn’t fit, then tell me about the acne products, chtol,)
Good luck!)

Dad is a man. and any girl is dumb to tell him about menstruation. it's quite normal. tell mom or grandmother))) they will understand you. just choose a good moment) or write a text message like: Mom. I started these days.

Quietly ask for money for "hygiene items." Dad will understand)
You do not confess to him that she lost her virginity.

she went and bought no money ask ask lie or say on sredsta hygiene.

Say dad, give me the money. I want to buy chocolate. If you ask how much? You tell me the approximate cost of gaskets and that's it. And then if you ask and where is the chocolate you say I already ate while I was walking :)

atebe don’t give money if they give buy it and if they don’t give it, tell me dad and you will give me a hundred rubles, but I’d like to go to school, and if I don’t give it, tell me the school’s needs, you’ll have to give a hundred rubles until tomorrow, and if you’re scared to go to the pharmacy go you will not see this pharmacist anymore and you and mom you tell her you write to mms in her menstrual period and she will definitely tell about it to dad and dad won't talk to you about it just say to do hundred rubles if you need to buy something or he will buy pads himself and in your wardrobe he will stick under your clothes while you you don't see

and you and mom you communicate with her, in sms write moms at me monthly and she will surely tell about it dad and dad won't talk to you about it just say doc a hundred rubles if you need to buy something or buy it yourself tucked under clothes until you see

not necessarily mom dad tell! and more! Dad started buying daughters gaskets. under the table

I live with my dad, my mom abroad, and how will my dad inform about it, will I have to buy gaskets?

I don't know, but dad doesn't speak straight

Awuuu people. You cheated on the girl!? The man is shy, and you. Actually, just call your mom and she will give it to your dad. And I'm sure that dad will not talk to you about it and give dough.

Dad bought me pads when mom left. nothing special just put me in the closet and that's it! and nothing funny there.
the author, tell your mom that she will tell your dad about your monthly, that he should buy gaskets in advance))

tell me my red calendar day! and all

I live with my dad, my mom abroad, and how will my dad inform about it, will I have to buy gaskets?

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